My Bad Egg experience

This morning, I woke up  With the plan of making pancake, heading straight to the kitchen, I grabbed my bowl, picked the eggs from the fridge and started breaking the eggs one after the other, first, second, third and fourth but low and behold the fourth egg was bad and was already mixed with the good eggs and had already spoilt the good ones. All my effort to Separate the good from the bad was in vain as all the Eggs were already smelling.
I went to throw out the Eggs with a heavy heart because they were the last eyes I had in the house. Suddenly I heard a voice saying: “if only you had taken time to break the eggs in individual bowls, you would avoided this because you would have had time to observe each of them”
hmm mm shaking my head came the three great Lessons.
Lessons one: Excellence should be our watch word. A tiny and insignificant detail can mess up our lives if we do not pay attention to the tiny details.. Remember what is worth doing is worth doing well.


Lessons two: just as it is with selection of friends, you could have 10 good friends just as my three good eggs but one bad friend is enough to cause a life time of pain. This could affect you as an individual or your other friends as well, so take your time and be careful in selecting your friends. Smiling and thinking of how true this could be another reality hit me which led to my third lesson.
Lesson three :How about having lots of good attitude and one bad one?  It doesn’t matter how good you are one bad attitude will surly destroy your whole reputation, no wonder the saying ” it takes Grace to lift a man to a greater height but it takes character to keep him and sustain him there, every great man is a man of character”. It’s always good to examine our character to avoid one bad egg.

simplest – but-most-important

This may be the shortest post ever in this platform, but most importantly, Its always good to use the simplest but most important of instruments ever invented ‘paper and pen’, so as to write down flashes of inspiration when they come. Most of us are full of ideas but lost them because we don’t pen them down. Remember that the smallest pen is bigger and better than the biggest brain, As we go about our endeavours  put in practice the act of jotting.

Money is hiding in things people dont want.

Money is hiding in things people dont want.

At the early hours of today I read a speech of a top network marketing guru in Africa and these are the points he mentioned about money and where you can get it. He says you will only find money in these 3 places.

The first place where you will find money is with people. All businesses need people to make money. Doctors need people to make money and they call those people patients. Checkers and Woolworths needs people to make money and they call them customers.  If you run away from people you are running away from your riches. If you say you are shy and can’t talk to people then it means poverty will be your best friend.

The second place to make money is to find solutions to people’s problems. Most people run away from problems because they don’t want to find solutions to their problems.  That’s why we don’t last in things that we start because immediately when a problem comes we run away and say it’s not working. If only you can find solutions instead of complaining about your problems you will be a better person and you will become successful.

The last place you can find money is with opportunities. Most people run away from opportunities because they don’t like such opportunities. You don’t have to like an opportunity, if you can just find  the benefits that come with the opportunity and focus on such benefits you will become successful. Most of the things that make people successful are not the things they love but it’s what they will get out of those things.

Now how are you making your own money? Don’t tell me about a job because you will be poor for the rest of your life as long as you are loyal to your job. The richest people in the world looks for and build networks while everyone else looks for a job. Where do you Belong?

We beheld what we did and what we left

Regret 

We beheld what we did and what we left
All we see is our choice of yesterday
Yesterday is gone but our choice remain until now
I dread the most peaceful nagative force of yesterday
REGRET 
I have heard the history of both great and small
I have heard the echo of the phrase “had I know”
The worst at Such time is that , time is gone The remedy is therefore
A balance of wisdom, age and choice
Therefore choose to age with wisdom
Let wisdom be your companion
So as to have a life devoid of regret
Be deliberate about life
Be deliberate about choice
Be deliberately about wisdom.
And if you already have one , don’t beat yourself up over it
Beating yourself up over a mistake you made
Is only going to make you more inclined to do it again.
Just jejely accept that it happened
learn the lessons
throw the pains and move on.

Believe you can make it

  1.                        BELIEVE
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    The key to every door is what makes to access the needs,
    knowledge in an area is what is needed to access the area. Money is what can be use to access needs, money answer all things.

    Recently I encounter a reality, who told me that money is not all I need. He told me all i need is him, When I converse with this entity he told me his name was Believe

  3. he told me he is always between my needs and  reality, he told me everything I desire can be access through him,

  4. Believe walk me through all my needs, as he patiently enlighten me about access, he told me the first thing to do is ; to established that what I need is legitimate, after that I should make up my mind to acquire it.

  5. photo by Parhol

    After that I should never give up, until I see it come to pass , he told me that other people that have encounter him called him Faith

    He said all things both plans and desires of the heart can be attain through believe
    He said money is good but no virtue can be compared with simply believing
    My companion left me thinking, He came in to change my dogma

  6. Believe it is possible
    Believe you can do it
    Believe it’s attainable
    Walk though  attaining it and simple posses it.

I thought

I thought i understood value until i met you
I thought i have understood love until i saw its expression in you
Such a unique expression of value, encapsulated in your personality
You differ my definition of value because you are its expression
Strong at heart and mind
The nugget of treasure
You were conceive in greatness
You don’t just wear a ‘khaki’ in a profession
You are really strong at heart and mind
A warrior at heart
You fought battles of the mind and you won
I can hear the triumphant sound of victory as you make a procession accompanied by the great
Today i wish to express myself, today i wish to say you mean alot
My words may fail, but my heart expression is true
So i wish i can make my heart bare and open to you, so you can see through
HAPPY BIRTHDAY great one, you are such a blessing
May the days ahead be more fruitful and purposeful.

FRAGMENT

  • FRAGMENT
    Gather the fragment, well you say
    “That is small it is just a little piece”
    It does not mean , it is useless, too minut
    And you also say because it is small,
    It is therefore irrelevant, it cannot be use
    I rather leave it, I can throw it away
    Let the Ants, the Rats and Termites have it
    Amazingly the Ants doesn’t depend on you to eat
    So braze up gather it and put it together
    The pieces, the small fragments.
    Put them together
    Gather the fragment, the skills,
    Dreams, plans and knowledge
    Gather the fragment, until you have them together you don’t have the picture.
    Your skills may be small to others, your dreams may be mock
    Your plans and visions can be mocked
    But you must gather them together
    Those little things are all you need to succeed
    Just put on persistence, resilience and stay on it.

ESSENCE

ESSENCE

Locked up, pressed down , beyond measure ,Feels weak, feeble, frail.

up you stand, but soon on your knees back to the initials.

Oh no!!!!!

Life can not be life this way.
“How many times can I fail to understand life.

So you thought you are strong , until that very strength fails again.”

And you ask, is this life? ”

Today I am up and tomorrow I am down?
Today I am laughing and tomorrow I am sad?”

And you ask again, “can’t I smile today, and smile tomorrow?”

Ossh! Quite trying it your own way.
Remember the inward lock is like a lion that is cage, unlock the lion first.

And so you ask is life a failure, depression and troubles
No! No!! No!!!
Hold the thought there

HOLD THE THOUGHT

Permit it no access any longer
The lock can not be unlock by you.
You can’t give your self joy
the best you can is d mixture of sadness and laughter

 

So we all need an intervention
There is only one way out. You can’t get through alone so I suggest, drive, plunge , be completely connected to a greater force
That’s the only way to live.

 

FRIENDS

 So just like the roses
Bright and attractive
The beauty so undeniable
Friends are like roses
Friends add colour and brightness

The reflection of beauty is seen and encapsulated in friendship
Friendship is a seed of future
Like the brightness of A Star
Like the radiance of the sun
Friends are such an illumination
Friends are gifts
Like the lions that move in a pride

You are stronger amidst your family
Friendship is a source of strength
Strength is only obtainable within the circle of right friendship
Life can get much better when we harness friendship
Gather and harness the opportunities on friendship
Friendship is like the light of sun, it can light the moon your fellowship can light-up the weak

Friendship is a gift
We must treat our friends with all commitment and reverence
Friends are like angels, they come to our aid when we least expect expect.

Value your friends
Value Friendship.

OUT THERE

time was, time came

Time was when I had nothing, my rich friends fled and left me all alone, I accused them of pride, heck I even called them wicked

Time was, I had a lot,  I fled from my friends who had nothing and did to them what I accused my rich friends of doing to me.

Time was when I was a child, I saw my father as a mean man,  I said he maltreated my  mother. I swore to myself that when I grow up,  I will not allow anyone treat me unfairly.

Time came I grew up,  I even got married. I perceived that my husband will maltreat me so I maltreated him first. I did to him what I accused my father of doing to my mother.

Time was when I had no job,  I blamed my teachers for not teaching me well, I blamed my father for not sending me to school at a younger age, I blamed the Government for not providing the enabling environment.

Time came and I got a job but I did not really like my boss.  He was always scolding me for coming late to work and for doing a shabby job. But it’s not my fault. My home is far from my work place and since I did not graduate from a good school I can’t really do much.

So you  see, the problem is always out there and it’s always other peoples fault. We hardly accept any blame when things go wrong but when things go well, we take credit for it.

Would it were that I remained poor,  I would still be humble , would it were that I did my job well,  I would still have a job,  would it were that I was nicer to my husband, I would still be married,

WOULD IT  WERE THAT WE ACKNOWLEDGE OUR OWN FAULT.