My Bad Egg experience

This morning, I woke up  With the plan of making pancake, heading straight to the kitchen, I grabbed my bowl, picked the eggs from the fridge and started breaking the eggs one after the other, first, second, third and fourth but low and behold the fourth egg was bad and was already mixed with the good eggs and had already spoilt the good ones. All my effort to Separate the good from the bad was in vain as all the Eggs were already smelling.
I went to throw out the Eggs with a heavy heart because they were the last eyes I had in the house. Suddenly I heard a voice saying: “if only you had taken time to break the eggs in individual bowls, you would avoided this because you would have had time to observe each of them”
hmm mm shaking my head came the three great Lessons.
Lessons one: Excellence should be our watch word. A tiny and insignificant detail can mess up our lives if we do not pay attention to the tiny details.. Remember what is worth doing is worth doing well.


Lessons two: just as it is with selection of friends, you could have 10 good friends just as my three good eggs but one bad friend is enough to cause a life time of pain. This could affect you as an individual or your other friends as well, so take your time and be careful in selecting your friends. Smiling and thinking of how true this could be another reality hit me which led to my third lesson.
Lesson three :How about having lots of good attitude and one bad one?  It doesn’t matter how good you are one bad attitude will surly destroy your whole reputation, no wonder the saying ” it takes Grace to lift a man to a greater height but it takes character to keep him and sustain him there, every great man is a man of character”. It’s always good to examine our character to avoid one bad egg.

simplest – but-most-important

This may be the shortest post ever in this platform, but most importantly, Its always good to use the simplest but most important of instruments ever invented ‘paper and pen’, so as to write down flashes of inspiration when they come. Most of us are full of ideas but lost them because we don’t pen them down. Remember that the smallest pen is bigger and better than the biggest brain, As we go about our endeavours  put in practice the act of jotting.

We beheld what we did and what we left

Regret 

We beheld what we did and what we left
All we see is our choice of yesterday
Yesterday is gone but our choice remain until now
I dread the most peaceful nagative force of yesterday
REGRET 
I have heard the history of both great and small
I have heard the echo of the phrase “had I know”
The worst at Such time is that , time is gone The remedy is therefore
A balance of wisdom, age and choice
Therefore choose to age with wisdom
Let wisdom be your companion
So as to have a life devoid of regret
Be deliberate about life
Be deliberate about choice
Be deliberately about wisdom.
And if you already have one , don’t beat yourself up over it
Beating yourself up over a mistake you made
Is only going to make you more inclined to do it again.
Just jejely accept that it happened
learn the lessons
throw the pains and move on.

FRAGMENT

  • FRAGMENT
    Gather the fragment, well you say
    “That is small it is just a little piece”
    It does not mean , it is useless, too minut
    And you also say because it is small,
    It is therefore irrelevant, it cannot be use
    I rather leave it, I can throw it away
    Let the Ants, the Rats and Termites have it
    Amazingly the Ants doesn’t depend on you to eat
    So braze up gather it and put it together
    The pieces, the small fragments.
    Put them together
    Gather the fragment, the skills,
    Dreams, plans and knowledge
    Gather the fragment, until you have them together you don’t have the picture.
    Your skills may be small to others, your dreams may be mock
    Your plans and visions can be mocked
    But you must gather them together
    Those little things are all you need to succeed
    Just put on persistence, resilience and stay on it.

FRIENDS

 So just like the roses
Bright and attractive
The beauty so undeniable
Friends are like roses
Friends add colour and brightness

The reflection of beauty is seen and encapsulated in friendship
Friendship is a seed of future
Like the brightness of A Star
Like the radiance of the sun
Friends are such an illumination
Friends are gifts
Like the lions that move in a pride

You are stronger amidst your family
Friendship is a source of strength
Strength is only obtainable within the circle of right friendship
Life can get much better when we harness friendship
Gather and harness the opportunities on friendship
Friendship is like the light of sun, it can light the moon your fellowship can light-up the weak

Friendship is a gift
We must treat our friends with all commitment and reverence
Friends are like angels, they come to our aid when we least expect expect.

Value your friends
Value Friendship.

KNOWLEDGE

KNOWLEDGE

Complex yet easy, intricate, complicated,puzzled yet straight. The picture is in your heart, Colour it, paint it, Yes the figure is in your heart

Model it out, mould it, Is from the outward to inward, outward then inward

You first receive a life you lost, perfect and blameless, Dead but now alive.

But you don’t stop there, remember that though the picture is inside you, you can’t see it until

You put in sufficient light ; to sight the image within. Light , illumination, vision, is what  I call knowledge

Like a plain paper; white , spotless, can only be change in to book by the addition of a word after words, sentence upon sentence, paragraph upon paragraphs

knowledge is a building block for the builder, a place of cotton for the textile (scientist )

knowledge is light, he that found it can see. Get knowledge , pause it until the picture within is clear enough for moulding.

You are a product of the sum total of your knowledge.

But wisdom is a principal thing so get wisdom but in all your getting , get understanding which is a product of Knowledge.

THE BIG HOLE

The Hole that crave to be filled.

There is a hole inside of me that makes me feel so empty, A hole that yarns to be filled,
It’s so deep that it makes me cry for help,Makes me want to go solo away from everyone,
My heart aches for this hole to be filled, Because in its fill is my highest expression of life,
Many came to fill it but left it with a greater vacuum, Much more bigger than it use to be,
It looks like I am in a dry and a thirsty land,  A place devoid of life; absolute desert,
I hope you know that there is a hole that can’t be filled by any man? Not your Boo, Not your Bae,  not your honey pie,  nor your parents ,
There is this hole that lays in there, Every being was carved out to desire fulfillment.
In our journey to fulfillment, values must be added, Our heart craves for fellowship,This hole responds to deep fellowship, Therefore Love with every strand of you
Until the hole be full, do not relent.

JUST LIVING

So what happened?
Again I ask what happened,

How has it change ,Why did it changed?
Change though constant but questionable
So what happen and how has it change?
Slowly draining out, Non-turbulent stream
Laminar flow is like the release of life,

slowly fading away but too slippery to grasp
So we stood almost helpless watching

our very life fade away like the fleeting breadth

They said change is constant , so we released our

essence and co-values to change

The problem is that one of an undefined purpose,

We change with time, we never put our

defense system to work
Guard your heart means nothing to us
Never pondered on it and

when we hear statements like

WATCH IT! BE CAREFUL!
We just pretend not to hear
Engross in our unending misplaced concepts

all that matters to us is just living
If we can live even on the bad side of life,

we are at least okay
And we say ‘at least we are living’
May the gentle breeze of a

purposeful life, breath on us.

#dairyofjoelsadi#

TODAY (part 2)

TODAY (part 2)
Here comes the continuation of today as promised.
The light source is the same but the intensity varies
The same sun shines but the cloud in the sky can shield the rays
So every days light intensity differs
Which makes today TODAY


There is summer and winter
There is heat and cold
But every day varies
Life is best live a day at a time.
You don’t make it better by living yesterday TODAY!
So up you arise and dare it.
Yesterday you tried,  but today you can do IT.
You must improve on yesterday’s ideas,  belief and mindset
Give today a CHANCE
The fact that today’s light intensity is different   qualifies today to be TODAY.
Don’t give it a trial as usual : do it.
Don’t attempt it,  execute it.
TODAY is not yesterday
TODAY is TODAY.

SELF LOVE

Self love
Lust in the world of pleasing others and freezing in my own world of pain
Easing the pain of others but yet squeezing in my pain of Inconvenience
Meeting the needs of others
But yet pleading for just a little care,
Healing the pain of others but yet heaping my own pain.
Helping others except me
I love every other person except me.
Loving others was the simplest task to accomplish.
Then I realize I was wrong and guilty.
Guilty of what you may ask?
The law says love your Neighbour as your self.
Oh yes I came first not others,
Then I realize I can’t love others more than I love myself. I can’t take care of others while I bleed,  it should be win win situation.
Then I raise my head and say father I am sorry.
Self love is all that matters.