My Bad Egg experience

This morning, I woke up  With the plan of making pancake, heading straight to the kitchen, I grabbed my bowl, picked the eggs from the fridge and started breaking the eggs one after the other, first, second, third and fourth but low and behold the fourth egg was bad and was already mixed with the good eggs and had already spoilt the good ones. All my effort to Separate the good from the bad was in vain as all the Eggs were already smelling.
I went to throw out the Eggs with a heavy heart because they were the last eyes I had in the house. Suddenly I heard a voice saying: “if only you had taken time to break the eggs in individual bowls, you would avoided this because you would have had time to observe each of them”
hmm mm shaking my head came the three great Lessons.
Lessons one: Excellence should be our watch word. A tiny and insignificant detail can mess up our lives if we do not pay attention to the tiny details.. Remember what is worth doing is worth doing well.


Lessons two: just as it is with selection of friends, you could have 10 good friends just as my three good eggs but one bad friend is enough to cause a life time of pain. This could affect you as an individual or your other friends as well, so take your time and be careful in selecting your friends. Smiling and thinking of how true this could be another reality hit me which led to my third lesson.
Lesson three :How about having lots of good attitude and one bad one?  It doesn’t matter how good you are one bad attitude will surly destroy your whole reputation, no wonder the saying ” it takes Grace to lift a man to a greater height but it takes character to keep him and sustain him there, every great man is a man of character”. It’s always good to examine our character to avoid one bad egg.

We beheld what we did and what we left

Regret 

We beheld what we did and what we left
All we see is our choice of yesterday
Yesterday is gone but our choice remain until now
I dread the most peaceful nagative force of yesterday
REGRET 
I have heard the history of both great and small
I have heard the echo of the phrase “had I know”
The worst at Such time is that , time is gone The remedy is therefore
A balance of wisdom, age and choice
Therefore choose to age with wisdom
Let wisdom be your companion
So as to have a life devoid of regret
Be deliberate about life
Be deliberate about choice
Be deliberately about wisdom.
And if you already have one , don’t beat yourself up over it
Beating yourself up over a mistake you made
Is only going to make you more inclined to do it again.
Just jejely accept that it happened
learn the lessons
throw the pains and move on.

Believe you can make it

  1.                        BELIEVE
  2. Photo by feelingoodfeelingreat

    The key to every door is what makes to access the needs,
    knowledge in an area is what is needed to access the area. Money is what can be use to access needs, money answer all things.

    Recently I encounter a reality, who told me that money is not all I need. He told me all i need is him, When I converse with this entity he told me his name was Believe

  3. he told me he is always between my needs and  reality, he told me everything I desire can be access through him,

  4. Believe walk me through all my needs, as he patiently enlighten me about access, he told me the first thing to do is ; to established that what I need is legitimate, after that I should make up my mind to acquire it.

  5. photo by Parhol

    After that I should never give up, until I see it come to pass , he told me that other people that have encounter him called him Faith

    He said all things both plans and desires of the heart can be attain through believe
    He said money is good but no virtue can be compared with simply believing
    My companion left me thinking, He came in to change my dogma

  6. Believe it is possible
    Believe you can do it
    Believe it’s attainable
    Walk though  attaining it and simple posses it.

I thought

I thought i understood value until i met you
I thought i have understood love until i saw its expression in you
Such a unique expression of value, encapsulated in your personality
You differ my definition of value because you are its expression
Strong at heart and mind
The nugget of treasure
You were conceive in greatness
You don’t just wear a ‘khaki’ in a profession
You are really strong at heart and mind
A warrior at heart
You fought battles of the mind and you won
I can hear the triumphant sound of victory as you make a procession accompanied by the great
Today i wish to express myself, today i wish to say you mean alot
My words may fail, but my heart expression is true
So i wish i can make my heart bare and open to you, so you can see through
HAPPY BIRTHDAY great one, you are such a blessing
May the days ahead be more fruitful and purposeful.

FRIENDS

 So just like the roses
Bright and attractive
The beauty so undeniable
Friends are like roses
Friends add colour and brightness

The reflection of beauty is seen and encapsulated in friendship
Friendship is a seed of future
Like the brightness of A Star
Like the radiance of the sun
Friends are such an illumination
Friends are gifts
Like the lions that move in a pride

You are stronger amidst your family
Friendship is a source of strength
Strength is only obtainable within the circle of right friendship
Life can get much better when we harness friendship
Gather and harness the opportunities on friendship
Friendship is like the light of sun, it can light the moon your fellowship can light-up the weak

Friendship is a gift
We must treat our friends with all commitment and reverence
Friends are like angels, they come to our aid when we least expect expect.

Value your friends
Value Friendship.

OUT THERE

time was, time came

Time was when I had nothing, my rich friends fled and left me all alone, I accused them of pride, heck I even called them wicked

Time was, I had a lot,  I fled from my friends who had nothing and did to them what I accused my rich friends of doing to me.

Time was when I was a child, I saw my father as a mean man,  I said he maltreated my  mother. I swore to myself that when I grow up,  I will not allow anyone treat me unfairly.

Time came I grew up,  I even got married. I perceived that my husband will maltreat me so I maltreated him first. I did to him what I accused my father of doing to my mother.

Time was when I had no job,  I blamed my teachers for not teaching me well, I blamed my father for not sending me to school at a younger age, I blamed the Government for not providing the enabling environment.

Time came and I got a job but I did not really like my boss.  He was always scolding me for coming late to work and for doing a shabby job. But it’s not my fault. My home is far from my work place and since I did not graduate from a good school I can’t really do much.

So you  see, the problem is always out there and it’s always other peoples fault. We hardly accept any blame when things go wrong but when things go well, we take credit for it.

Would it were that I remained poor,  I would still be humble , would it were that I did my job well,  I would still have a job,  would it were that I was nicer to my husband, I would still be married,

WOULD IT  WERE THAT WE ACKNOWLEDGE OUR OWN FAULT.

KNOWLEDGE

KNOWLEDGE

Complex yet easy, intricate, complicated,puzzled yet straight. The picture is in your heart, Colour it, paint it, Yes the figure is in your heart

Model it out, mould it, Is from the outward to inward, outward then inward

You first receive a life you lost, perfect and blameless, Dead but now alive.

But you don’t stop there, remember that though the picture is inside you, you can’t see it until

You put in sufficient light ; to sight the image within. Light , illumination, vision, is what  I call knowledge

Like a plain paper; white , spotless, can only be change in to book by the addition of a word after words, sentence upon sentence, paragraph upon paragraphs

knowledge is a building block for the builder, a place of cotton for the textile (scientist )

knowledge is light, he that found it can see. Get knowledge , pause it until the picture within is clear enough for moulding.

You are a product of the sum total of your knowledge.

But wisdom is a principal thing so get wisdom but in all your getting , get understanding which is a product of Knowledge.

THE BIG HOLE

The Hole that crave to be filled.

There is a hole inside of me that makes me feel so empty, A hole that yarns to be filled,
It’s so deep that it makes me cry for help,Makes me want to go solo away from everyone,
My heart aches for this hole to be filled, Because in its fill is my highest expression of life,
Many came to fill it but left it with a greater vacuum, Much more bigger than it use to be,
It looks like I am in a dry and a thirsty land,  A place devoid of life; absolute desert,
I hope you know that there is a hole that can’t be filled by any man? Not your Boo, Not your Bae,  not your honey pie,  nor your parents ,
There is this hole that lays in there, Every being was carved out to desire fulfillment.
In our journey to fulfillment, values must be added, Our heart craves for fellowship,This hole responds to deep fellowship, Therefore Love with every strand of you
Until the hole be full, do not relent.

JUST LIVING

So what happened?
Again I ask what happened,

How has it change ,Why did it changed?
Change though constant but questionable
So what happen and how has it change?
Slowly draining out, Non-turbulent stream
Laminar flow is like the release of life,

slowly fading away but too slippery to grasp
So we stood almost helpless watching

our very life fade away like the fleeting breadth

They said change is constant , so we released our

essence and co-values to change

The problem is that one of an undefined purpose,

We change with time, we never put our

defense system to work
Guard your heart means nothing to us
Never pondered on it and

when we hear statements like

WATCH IT! BE CAREFUL!
We just pretend not to hear
Engross in our unending misplaced concepts

all that matters to us is just living
If we can live even on the bad side of life,

we are at least okay
And we say ‘at least we are living’
May the gentle breeze of a

purposeful life, breath on us.

#dairyofjoelsadi#

TODAY (part 2)

TODAY (part 2)
Here comes the continuation of today as promised.
The light source is the same but the intensity varies
The same sun shines but the cloud in the sky can shield the rays
So every days light intensity differs
Which makes today TODAY


There is summer and winter
There is heat and cold
But every day varies
Life is best live a day at a time.
You don’t make it better by living yesterday TODAY!
So up you arise and dare it.
Yesterday you tried,  but today you can do IT.
You must improve on yesterday’s ideas,  belief and mindset
Give today a CHANCE
The fact that today’s light intensity is different   qualifies today to be TODAY.
Don’t give it a trial as usual : do it.
Don’t attempt it,  execute it.
TODAY is not yesterday
TODAY is TODAY.