It Worked For Me

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The Most Important Thing is to Try everyday
at least if you won’t act, just do “The Thinking” daily
One Day,
When the gods give you a proper Knock on the head
for Toying with your Talent,
You Will Act
Somehow it Worked for me.

– Diary of an Earthling, z.g.barwa [Dialogue wit Malaikan Arewa]

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The Forgotten Celebrant

The forgotten celebrant

It’s exactly one year ago, when my parents threw a huge birthday party in honor of my born day.

Just a year gone, yet the sad experience I had still remains unforgettable in my heart, and I wish this year’s will be with much difference or better still, no celebration.

It was a huge celebration with more than one thousand guests in attendance, every one ate to stupor; they all danced and till they could dance no more. The chef was the best in town; the M.C wowed every one, and the DJ hmmmmm… Speechless!

The party was meant to be a memorable one for all the attendees especially me but little did I know it will turn out to be my worse nightmare.
I was left out of my own birthday celebration. Alot to eat and drink, enough fun but I was never in the picture of the event.

Seemed everyone cared more about themselves and less about me who was supposed to be the reason for the celebration.

To crown it all, three days after the celebration the camera man came back with the photo shoots but I was missing in all the pictures, neither was I captured even by mistake

Which popped the following questions by my dad; why was the celebrant not in the picture?
Why was she forgotten? Why did I spend so much if the celebrant is not pleased? Why the celebration? Why celebrate if the celebrant won’t be featured?

I shook my head sadly and said, “Dad, you and mum are also guilty because both of you were not also around.”

And as I rememberd my birthday today, it occurred to me that Christmas is just one day away. How do you plan to spend your Christmas?
Will the celebrant be featured in your celebration?
Will He be in the picture of the celebration?

Remember the reason for the season and don’t leave out the celebrant! As for me, no more celebration of birthdays. self-love all the way!!

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I Love My Enemies

I love it when people look down on me.
I love it when people take advantage of me
I love it when people think they are wiser than me.
I love it when people think I am a fool for being simple.
I love it when people take my act of forgiveness for amnesia
I love it when people take my gentility for weakness
I love it when people insult me.
I love it when I am being back stabbed
I love it because it has taught me who to avoid, who to trust and who to  devote my time to. Above all it helped me to know who my real friends are and how to place them right exactly where they belong.
And this just makes me love them more, because deep inside me they make me a better person

It has taught me leasons I never learnt within the four walls of  a school.  I don’t beef them but I have become wiser and i see the world through them.

Work As Worship

 WORK AND WORSHIP 

in the beginning, God created the earth and God said to man be faithful, multiply  and replenish the earth and subdue it, man became a co producer with GOD.
Man took care of the garden  , he was occupied with that which God has given him
Man was happy and fulfilled doing his task, Man enjoyed God’s presence doing his work
Man was provided for, sustained and maintain , Man enjoy communion simply carrying out his task , Man was never a slave of his work, Man understand his mission in the garden,Man’s work was his total response to God’s instruction.
Man thrive on God’s instruction, he kept and cultivate the plants.
Man was blessed, His work as an extension of his worship to God.
WORK is WORSHIP
a dichotomy of worship and work a deception, true work should be worship in expression. every work given to man by GOD is a mission which is a worship .
work is worship  , Be faithful in your work.

My Bad Egg experience

This morning, I woke up  With the plan of making pancake, heading straight to the kitchen, I grabbed my bowl, picked the eggs from the fridge and started breaking the eggs one after the other, first, second, third and fourth but low and behold the fourth egg was bad and was already mixed with the good eggs and had already spoilt the good ones. All my effort to Separate the good from the bad was in vain as all the Eggs were already smelling.
I went to throw out the Eggs with a heavy heart because they were the last eyes I had in the house. Suddenly I heard a voice saying: “if only you had taken time to break the eggs in individual bowls, you would avoided this because you would have had time to observe each of them”
hmm mm shaking my head came the three great Lessons.
Lessons one: Excellence should be our watch word. A tiny and insignificant detail can mess up our lives if we do not pay attention to the tiny details.. Remember what is worth doing is worth doing well.


Lessons two: just as it is with selection of friends, you could have 10 good friends just as my three good eggs but one bad friend is enough to cause a life time of pain. This could affect you as an individual or your other friends as well, so take your time and be careful in selecting your friends. Smiling and thinking of how true this could be another reality hit me which led to my third lesson.
Lesson three :How about having lots of good attitude and one bad one?  It doesn’t matter how good you are one bad attitude will surly destroy your whole reputation, no wonder the saying ” it takes Grace to lift a man to a greater height but it takes character to keep him and sustain him there, every great man is a man of character”. It’s always good to examine our character to avoid one bad egg.

We beheld what we did and what we left

Regret 

We beheld what we did and what we left
All we see is our choice of yesterday
Yesterday is gone but our choice remain until now
I dread the most peaceful nagative force of yesterday
REGRET 
I have heard the history of both great and small
I have heard the echo of the phrase “had I know”
The worst at Such time is that , time is gone The remedy is therefore
A balance of wisdom, age and choice
Therefore choose to age with wisdom
Let wisdom be your companion
So as to have a life devoid of regret
Be deliberate about life
Be deliberate about choice
Be deliberately about wisdom.
And if you already have one , don’t beat yourself up over it
Beating yourself up over a mistake you made
Is only going to make you more inclined to do it again.
Just jejely accept that it happened
learn the lessons
throw the pains and move on.

Believe you can make it

  1.                        BELIEVE
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    The key to every door is what makes to access the needs,
    knowledge in an area is what is needed to access the area. Money is what can be use to access needs, money answer all things.

    Recently I encounter a reality, who told me that money is not all I need. He told me all i need is him, When I converse with this entity he told me his name was Believe

  3. he told me he is always between my needs and  reality, he told me everything I desire can be access through him,

  4. Believe walk me through all my needs, as he patiently enlighten me about access, he told me the first thing to do is ; to established that what I need is legitimate, after that I should make up my mind to acquire it.

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    After that I should never give up, until I see it come to pass , he told me that other people that have encounter him called him Faith

    He said all things both plans and desires of the heart can be attain through believe
    He said money is good but no virtue can be compared with simply believing
    My companion left me thinking, He came in to change my dogma

  6. Believe it is possible
    Believe you can do it
    Believe it’s attainable
    Walk though  attaining it and simple posses it.

I thought

I thought i understood value until i met you
I thought i have understood love until i saw its expression in you
Such a unique expression of value, encapsulated in your personality
You differ my definition of value because you are its expression
Strong at heart and mind
The nugget of treasure
You were conceive in greatness
You don’t just wear a ‘khaki’ in a profession
You are really strong at heart and mind
A warrior at heart
You fought battles of the mind and you won
I can hear the triumphant sound of victory as you make a procession accompanied by the great
Today i wish to express myself, today i wish to say you mean alot
My words may fail, but my heart expression is true
So i wish i can make my heart bare and open to you, so you can see through
HAPPY BIRTHDAY great one, you are such a blessing
May the days ahead be more fruitful and purposeful.

FRIENDS

 So just like the roses
Bright and attractive
The beauty so undeniable
Friends are like roses
Friends add colour and brightness

The reflection of beauty is seen and encapsulated in friendship
Friendship is a seed of future
Like the brightness of A Star
Like the radiance of the sun
Friends are such an illumination
Friends are gifts
Like the lions that move in a pride

You are stronger amidst your family
Friendship is a source of strength
Strength is only obtainable within the circle of right friendship
Life can get much better when we harness friendship
Gather and harness the opportunities on friendship
Friendship is like the light of sun, it can light the moon your fellowship can light-up the weak

Friendship is a gift
We must treat our friends with all commitment and reverence
Friends are like angels, they come to our aid when we least expect expect.

Value your friends
Value Friendship.